PRO'S n CON'S OF SOCIAL NETWORKING

Social Networking has become increasingly popular nowadays as there are a lot of sites that offer this service. MySpace and Facebook are two of the most popular sites that aim to build communities of people who share common interests and activities, or who are interested in exploring the interests and activities of others.

THE PROS
A social networking site is like a virtual meeting place where people can hang out and discuss different topics. Some use these networking sites to promote their blogs, to post bulletins and updates or to use them as a bridge to a future love interest. These are just a few of the reasons why social networking is getting a lot of attention lately — it makes life more exciting for many people.

THE CONS
However, it would be best to make sure that safety and security are the topmost concerns of the social networking site that you currently use. This is because social networking sites require or give you the option to provide personal information such as your name, location, and email address. Unfortunately some people can take this as an opportunity for identity theft. They can copy your information and pretend to be you when engaging in illegal activities. So be cautious with what you enter into an online networking site. You could fall into the trap of someone who pretends to be somebody else. For example, they might offer you a job or want to meet up with you just to get your money. This can lead to cyberstalking, where the stalker uses electronic media such as the Internet to pursue or harass you.

THE CONCLUSION
So take your time and be careful in choosing who to trust so you can hopefully avoid this sort of unpleasant thing happening to you. Apart from that, social networking is a great thing.

BEST FRIENDS FOREVER

I will start with a normal definition or whatever u want to call it of a true friend.

A true friend is someone who will always stand by you whether they agree with you or not. They will tell you exactly what they think, because they know the truth does not hurt nearly as bad as a knife in your back. A true friend will help you get through the good, bad, and the ugly things in life.

How often will you find someone like this? Sometimes there will only be one person like this in your life. I am one of the luckiest people in the world. I have a best friend named Amber. We met in MAHE, Dubai Academic City. As a year went by, we started hanging out more and more. Our first year was truly a mixture of everything – spice of life, sharing of emotions, craziness, bunking a lot of classes, sitting around a corner and smoking, flicking food. We experienced a lot of things though I shall not go into details. SAZ and Amber – I seriously never thought that we would become the best of friends and we are till date. In addition, I am really happy that I have you as a friend in my life. I am amazed at the fact that we did not have much riots between us. Usually between friends riots do happen but in our case it was different.

Newayz moving on, Amber I just want to let you know one thing you are the first person who has been and will be my best friend. I love and care for you a lot (btw as a frend). In college you have never left me alone. Thank You so much for being there. I will never forget those moments which we shared and will be sharing. As the saying goes, a single candle can light up an entire room. A true friend lights up an entire lifetime. Thanks for the bright lights of your friendship.

Read this from a friend’s point of view. I know I have been there and I know how much you had gone through but, that one year and five months of your life has been very disturbing. Regarding this all I want to say is you are wasting away your life inside these walls. It is killing me to watch your world as it keeps you tearing down. You pretend to be normal the another day and it is all the same. If you want to be happy you must make things change. You DESERVE better than this. Wake up and breathe! Take a breath of fresh air. The life you say you want is still out there. Waiting right in front of you. Quit self destructing please. Life is too short to let it waste. You DESERVE better than this. Trust me! Why do you give up? Stop letting chances pass you by. Let go of the darkness! Bitterness, regret, pain and guilt all of them are a dead end. Dig deeper and find the strength to overcome from within. You said you are too Weak? Then let me hold you up until your perception is restored. I will be always there for you.

At the end, I will conclude with a ring which is round and has no end so is my love for you my friend.
Till then, Maasalama.

JUST A FEELING...

I look at myself in the mirror wondering why am I here? I want to stay positive but the world just keeps tearing me down. Sometimes you just think about giving up without a sound. You think that no one notices you, that you are all alone, that no one cares and acts like you are unknown. You are constantly worrying about what people think, like there is no hope like a ship about to sink. Everyday when I go to bed I have this feeling not wanting to wake up just wanting to bang my head. I feel very weak from inside - have no one bringing me up. Everytime words just rush in through my head forcing me to act according to them.
Newayz, At the end i just want all this things to end which keeps on barging into my mind. I keep on being optimistic waiting for the answers of my life. Well, thats it till the next blog ....

"GUYS"

There are certain things in a relationship which I want to share with u all today. This particular blog is about ten simple things which a guy wants from a girl. No Offense! But, before I start, I would like to say that I m not implementing on the fact that the girls dont understand guys or the guys are the ones who dont understand girls. I m not here to critisize on this topic, I m here as a third/neutral person to share some of the things from a guy's point of view.

We want to be the knight in shining armor for you, let us.
Appreciate us for who we are, not what we can provide for you.
Share our life, our hope, our dreams, and our disappointments.
We are human just like you and need encouragement sometimes.
Love us enough to be in our own thoughts sometimes.
It doesn’t mean we love you less, we just need time to unwind.
While it is in our nature not to be the best communicators, we do care about your day and we want to know what’s happening in your world, give us time we will ask.
If you want us to remain faithful be there for us as our reality for love is much stronger than yours.
We are simple beings ladies, be compassionate towards us, accept us for who we are, try and understand us, but most important love us.
We also want you to be yourself, love yourself, be who you are, that’s why we fall in love with you.

Most important of all ladies, forgive us our trespasses as we have many. We are only human as you and as such, do some outrageous things. Grant us these errors as we shall forgive yours.
Well, I know it was all common. I just wanted to share my thoughts. I hope you all liked it, till then Signing off.

BEING SINGLE !

People say being single is the most valuable gift you can ever have. But, being single and being into relationship both have their own values and freedom. Consider, 'Being Single' as the gift wrapper and 'Being into Relationship' as your most valuable gift.

Being single does not mean loneliness at all. Neither much happiness of course. Being single will provide some oppurtunities in life that Being into Relationship can't do. Examples for these oppurtunities can be listed as:

You can flirt anybody you like without worrying, You can go out with your friends' tours without damaging your time with your partner like dates, You can choose and choose for the best for you, You can date anyone, You can focus yourself on something more important, You can sleep early and well you don't have any quarrels to make up, You don't have commitments to think, You don't problem the problem of your partner, You can get wild anytime you want of course!

Are these enough to make me happy? At times, I feel m happy to be alone and at times i dont. Of course, we want to share our happiness to someone, our achievements and inspirations. ( but since up to now, I don't have a GF, I make my self as my insipiration because I believe that at the end I am still the one to enjoy the privileges of my achievements! )

Besides, the things single person must reflect on are these things that people in relationship enjoy than the single people:
They know that before you go off to sleep someone thinks about you, someone cares about you, someone loves you, they enjoy the happiness of kissing, they make the best in each other when one gets out of control, the another helps and stops to contol the other, someone will surely help you in times of troubles...etc and the list goes on.

Well, thats it for the moment. Thank you. ( Curtains Closed.. LOL )

I, ME AND MYSELF !

Communication through writing is a very important aspect in life. It is a tool to express one’s thought , idea , impression or abstraction. One cannot fully comprehend the other without a medium of communication and it is significant that writng is one of them aside the verbal way of communication.
I m now wondering if i m doing the right thing in my expression of ideas. I want to write exactly the ideas i have in my mind and express it the way i like it to be. Newayz lets get descriptive about myself.
Sarjil, a media student, studies in Manipal University at DIAC ( a place where anyone will start begging for entertainment or civilization ) located in Dubai. If you ask me what kind of person i m, i would say i m tagged as funny, confused, fun, loco, creative, stupid, idiot, wacky, wise, intelligent and dumb. This is what world has described me. You all know there are two sides of a coin. Similarly, these tags are true and are one side of the coin. The other side of the coin is unrevealed.

I clearly know what I want and I know how to get it. While boasting mad success with the opposite gender, m never shy to show my emotions and how I truly feel. M a great person to hang out with, a loyal friend and rumor has it - pretty good when it comes to serious lovin'. I love to stand out from the crowd and make a first impression as lovable person. I m the sort of person who likes to take life slowly, just one day at a time. I usually know the difference between right and wrong. I believe in myself. I put myself in other peoples shoes and see how it feels to be them and then handle a situation accordingly. If u talk about my attitude towards life its very positive. The flip side is that sometimes I care too much about other people and dont do what I really wanna do. I m unconventional, unique, and just a little bit tart. I know how to make a lasting impression and often do so with my zest for life. Besides, all of this m a funny person too. M good at expressions and my comments. Oh YES!! how can I forget, I love acting. If i wouldnt have joined media, I would have definetely joined acting.

At last, the only goal is to become a Creative Art Director.