Friday, 6 March 2009

"GUYS"


There are certain things in a relationship which I want to share with u all today. This particular blog is about ten simple things which a guy wants from a girl. No Offense! But, before I start, I would like to say that I m not implementing on the fact that the girls dont understand guys or the guys are the ones who dont understand girls. I m not here to critisize on this topic, I m here as a third/neutral person to share some of the things from a guy's point of view.

We want to be the knight in shining armor for you, let us.
Appreciate us for who we are, not what we can provide for you.
Share our life, our hope, our dreams, and our disappointments.
We are human just like you and need encouragement sometimes.
Love us enough to be in our own thoughts sometimes.
It doesn’t mean we love you less, we just need time to unwind.
While it is in our nature not to be the best communicators, we do care about your day and we want to know what’s happening in your world, give us time we will ask.
If you want us to remain faithful be there for us as our reality for love is much stronger than yours.
We are simple beings ladies, be compassionate towards us, accept us for who we are, try and understand us, but most important love us.
We also want you to be yourself, love yourself, be who you are, that’s why we fall in love with you.

Most important of all ladies, forgive us our trespasses as we have many. We are only human as you and as such, do some outrageous things. Grant us these errors as we shall forgive yours.
Well, I know it was all common. I just wanted to share my thoughts. I hope you all liked it, till then Signing off.

Monday, 2 March 2009

BEING SINGLE !


People say being single is the most valuable gift you can ever have. But, being single and being into relationship both have their own values and freedom. Consider, 'Being Single' as the gift wrapper and 'Being into Relationship' as your most valuable gift.


Being single does not mean loneliness at all. Neither much happiness of course. Being single will provide some oppurtunities in life that Being into Relationship can't do. Examples for these oppurtunities can be listed as:

You can flirt anybody you like without worrying, You can go out with your friends' tours without damaging your time with your partner like dates, You can choose and choose for the best for you, You can date anyone, You can focus yourself on something more important, You can sleep early and well you don't have any quarrels to make up, You don't have commitments to think, You don't problem the problem of your partner, You can get wild anytime you want of course!

Are these enough to make me happy? At times, I feel m happy to be alone and at times i dont. Of course, we want to share our happiness to someone, our achievements and inspirations. ( but since up to now, I don't have a GF, I make my self as my insipiration because I believe that at the end I am still the one to enjoy the privileges of my achievements! )


Besides, the things single person must reflect on are these things that people in relationship enjoy than the single people:
They know that before you go off to sleep someone thinks about you, someone cares about you, someone loves you, they enjoy the happiness of kissing, they make the best in each other when one gets out of control, the another helps and stops to contol the other, someone will surely help you in times of troubles...etc and the list goes on.


Well, thats it for the moment. Thank you. ( Curtains Closed.. LOL )